Discipleship Is Stewardship: Are You Passing the Baton?

Mentorship, Biblical Parenting, and Raising the Next Generation for Christ

Have you ever watched a relay race?

The runners don’t just focus on speed—they focus on passing the baton.

Because no matter how fast one person runs, if the baton drops, the race is lost.

This is exactly what mentorship and discipleship are about.

Christianity isn’t just about what you know or how much you grow—it’s about what you pass on to others.

So, let’s ask the hard question:

Are you stewarding your influence well? Or are you dropping the baton?

Because when it comes to discipleship, mentorship, and raising godly children…

What you fail to pass down may be lost forever.

1. Mentorship Is a Command, Not an Option

Many people think mentorship is for pastors, theologians, or professional counselors.

Wrong.

Mentorship is not a suggestion—it’s a biblical command.

Jesus said:

“Go and make disciples of all nations, teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you.” (Matthew 28:19-20)

This isn’t just about evangelism—it’s about discipleship.

And discipleship isn’t just about teaching what to believe—it’s about guiding people in how to live.

Biblical Examples of Mentorship

✔ Moses mentored Joshua – He didn’t just lead Israel; he trained Joshua to take over (Deuteronomy 31:7-8).
✔ Elijah mentored Elisha – Before Elijah was taken up, Elisha had received his spiritual mantle (2 Kings 2:9-14).
✔ Jesus mentored the Twelve – He didn’t just preach sermons—He walked with His disciples daily.
✔ Paul mentored Timothy and Titus – They became strong leaders because of Paul’s investment in them.

Christian growth isn’t just about personal development—it’s about pouring into others.

And if we’re not mentoring, we’re breaking the chain of discipleship.

2. The Dos and Don’ts of Mentorship

Not every mentor is a good one.

And not every mentoring relationship is healthy.

Let’s get practical:

✔ DOs of Mentorship

✅ Lead by Example – People learn by watching more than by listening (1 Corinthians 11:1).
✅ Be Available – A mentor that’s too busy to guide is just a title without impact.
✅ Speak Truth in Love – Correction should build up, not destroy (Ephesians 4:15).
✅ Encourage Growth – A good mentor pushes people to think, question, and mature.
✅ Pray for and with Them – Jesus constantly prayed for His disciples (Luke 22:32).

❌ DON’Ts of Mentorship

🚫 Don’t Play the Hero – You’re a mentor, not a savior. Point them to Jesus.
🚫 Don’t Micromanage – You’re a guide, not a dictator. Let them grow.
🚫 Don’t Gossip About Them – A mentor who breaks trust loses influence.
🚫 Don’t Force It – Not every mentoring relationship is meant to last forever.
🚫 Don’t Expect Perfection – People make mistakes. Be patient.

Mentorship done well changes lives.
Mentorship done wrong damages destinies.

So… are you mentoring well?

3. Stewarding the Next Generation (Biblical Parenting & Spiritual Influence)

Raising godly children isn’t just biological parenting—it’s spiritual stewardship.

Because the next generation will not follow Christ by accident.

If we don’t intentionally invest in them, they will be discipled by:
❌ Social media
❌ Culture
❌ Entertainment
❌ Peers who don’t know God

Biblical Parenting & Mentorship Principles

✔ Teach Them the Word Early – “Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not depart from it.” (Proverbs 22:6)
✔ Show, Don’t Just Tell – Your example matters more than your instructions (Deuteronomy 6:6-7).
✔ Correct with Love, Not Fear – Discipline should guide, not traumatize (Ephesians 6:4).
✔ Encourage Questions – Kids who aren’t allowed to ask questions will seek answers elsewhere.
✔ Let Them See Your Walk with God – Authenticity is more powerful than lectures.

If we don’t disciple the next generation, the world will.

4. Passing the Baton Without Dropping It

The greatest failure of any generation is not passing on what they received.

A perfect example?

The generation after Joshua:

“After that whole generation had been gathered to their ancestors, another generation grew up who knew neither the Lord nor what He had done for Israel.” (Judges 2:10)

How did that happen?

Because someone dropped the baton.

✔ They fought battles but didn’t pass on the faith.
✔ They built cities but didn’t build disciples.
✔ They won victories but failed in mentorship.

If we’re not careful, this can happen again.

And the solution? Intentional discipleship.

Final Thought: Who Are You Investing In?

Christianity is a relay race, not a solo sprint.

If all we do is grow spiritually but never help others grow, we have failed.

So, let’s reflect:

Who is mentoring you?
Who are you mentoring?
Are you passing the baton, or are you dropping it?

Because what you fail to pass down might be lost forever.

May 24, 2025May 23, 2025

Why Should Christians Care About the Poor?

Stewardship of Compassion and Social Responsibility

In a world where “hustle culture” is glorified and success is measured by material wealth, it’s easy to overlook the poor. Some people think:

“If they worked harder, they wouldn’t be poor.”
“God helps those who help themselves.”
“I have my own problems to worry about.”

But what does God think about all this?

Should Christians actively care for the poor, or is it just a nice thing to do when we have extra money?

Let’s get into it.

1. God’s Heart for the Poor

If you read the Bible and somehow miss God’s concern for the poor, you might need to read it again.

From Genesis to Revelation, God repeatedly calls His people to care for the weak, defend the oppressed, and provide for those in need.

Here are just a few examples:

Proverbs 19:17 – “Whoever is kind to the poor lends to the Lord, and He will reward them for what they have done.”
Isaiah 1:17 – “Learn to do right; seek justice. Defend the oppressed. Take up the cause of the fatherless; plead the case of the widow.”
James 1:27 – “Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress.”

Caring for the poor isn’t charity. It’s obedience.

It’s not about giving leftovers. It’s about stewarding resources the way God intends.

2. The Poor Aren’t Just “Them”—They’re Us

It’s easy to think of the poor as some distant group of people, but the reality is:

Poverty isn’t just a lack of money—it can be a lack of opportunity, support, or education.
Many people are one financial crisis away from struggling.
Some are born into hard circumstances they didn’t choose.

Jesus Himself was not rich on earth.

He was born in a manger.
He had no home during His ministry.
He relied on the generosity of others.

If Jesus lived humbly and cared for the poor, why should we do any less?

3. Excuses Christians Use to Avoid Helping the Poor

Many Christians say they care about the poor in theory but avoid responsibility in practice.

Here are some common excuses:

A. “The Poor Are Lazy. They Should Work Harder.”

While it’s true that hard work is valuable, it’s also true that:

✔ Some people work hard but earn very little.
✔ Some are trapped in cycles of generational poverty.
✔ Some have disabilities, illnesses, or struggles that limit opportunities.

Not everyone has the same starting point in life.

Jesus didn’t say, “Help only those who deserve it.”
He said, “Love your neighbor.”

B. “I Don’t Have Enough Money to Help.”

Caring for the poor isn’t just about money.

✔ You can give your time—volunteer at shelters, mentor, or support struggling families.
✔ You can use your skills—teach job skills, offer legal help, or train people.
✔ You can be a voice—advocate for policies that help the marginalized.

Compassion is about using whatever you have to make a difference.

C. “God Will Take Care of Them.”

Yes, God provides—but He often provides through people.

What if you are the answer to someone’s prayer?

That single mother struggling to buy food? You could be the one to help.
That unemployed father searching for a job? Your connection could be the breakthrough.
That orphan with no one to care for them? Your kindness could change their future.

God’s provision flows through His people.

4. What Does Stewardship of Compassion Look Like?

Being a good steward isn’t just about managing money—it’s about managing your heart.

✔ Give Freely: Help without expecting anything in return.
✔ Give Wisely: Support initiatives that create long-term impact.
✔ Give Relationally: Don’t just donate—build relationships with those in need.
✔ Give Consistently: Make generosity a lifestyle, not just a holiday activity.

You don’t have to change the whole world.

But you can change someone’s world.

Final Thought: We Are God’s Hands and Feet

The early church stood out because of their radical generosity. They:

Shared everything so that no one lacked (Acts 4:32-35).
Cared for widows and orphans (James 1:27).
Saw the poor as family, not strangers.

Jesus didn’t ignore the poor.
He didn’t just preach at them—He loved them.

And if we are truly His followers, we must do the same.

So, why should Christians care about the poor?

Because God does. And if His heart beats for them, ours should too.

May 23, 2025

🏃‍♂️ Jacob, Laban & You: Why Waiting Too Long Can Cost You More Than You Think

Ever thought about this?
What if Jacob had left Laban’s house the first time he thought about it? 🤔

Maybe there would’ve been no sneaky escape in the dead of night.
No stolen idols hidden under saddles.
No family drama that could power 3 seasons of a Netflix series.

But hey… Jacob waited.
And honestly, so do we.

Let’s talk.

🔄 When You Know It’s Time to Go… But You Stay Anyway

Jacob knew Laban wasn’t good for him.
He said it with his own mouth:

“Your father has cheated me by changing my wages ten times.” (Genesis 31:7)

TEN TIMES, my people. Ten.

But he stayed.
Worked.
Served.
Managed the chaos.
Pretended it was okay.
Maybe hoped it would get better.

Ever done that?

Stayed in a toxic friendship because “they were there for me once”
Stayed in a job that’s sucking the life out of you because “at least I’m getting paid”
Stayed in a church or group that’s clearly spiritually dry because “God put me here, so I must endure”

Sounds noble.

But sometimes, it’s just fear dressed in Christian clothing.

🧠 Why Do We Stay?

Let’s break it down.

Because we fear the unknown
Because we feel obligated
Because we don’t want to offend
Because leaving looks like disloyalty
Because it’s not “that” bad… yet
Because it’s not the Christian thing to do, right?

But listen.
God didn’t call you to be loyal to dysfunction.
You’re called to be faithful to Him.

🚨 The Cost of Delay

So what happened because Jacob delayed?

Family tension
Secret idol smuggling (thanks, Rachel 🙄)
Laban chasing them like it’s a Fast & Furious scene
Paranoia, guilt, anxiety…

Sound familiar?

Delaying obedience can sometimes multiply the consequences.
Comfort is not the same as peace.

🌟 But Here’s the Beautiful Part: God Still Helped Jacob

When Jacob finally moved…
God showed up.
Even though Jacob delayed, God didn’t discard him.

He protected him.
Prospered him.
Prepared him to face Esau.

So yes, maybe Jacob waited too long.

But grace waited too.

And it still does.

💭 What About You?

Is God nudging you out of your own “Laban’s house”?

That job?
That relationship?
That ministry role that’s slowly killing your fire? ||ghen ghen…
That comfort zone that’s become a cage?

Stop waiting for things to fall apart before you move.
Delayed obedience is still disobedience.

Jacob eventually left.
And his story didn’t end in regret—it ended in restoration. But what if he left earlier.

🔚 Final Thought

Don’t just stay because it’s familiar.
Don’t let “endurance” become an excuse for fear.

When God says move, don’t manage dysfunction—obey.

Because you may never know what restoration, healing, or new season is waiting outside Laban’s gate.

Now go pack your bags 🧳

And leave well.

Before you waste another 6years

March 11, 2025

Does God Have Favees? Or Are Some People Just… Special? 😏

Let’s be real. Sometimes, it feels like God has His guys.

You pray, fast, and even sow seed, but somehow, Sister Chinyere testifies again that she got a miracle alert—without praying! 😳

You hustle, stay faithful, and trust God, but Brother Samuel (who just repented last week) lands a dream job effortlessly.

Meanwhile, you’re like: “God, shey You dey whine me ni?” 😭

So… does God play favorites?

God’s VIP List?

If we’re being honest, some Bible verses seem to suggest that God does, in fact, have special people:

📖 “Jacob I loved, but Esau I hated.” – Romans 9:13
📖 “David is a man after My own heart.” – Acts 13:22
📖 “The disciple whom Jesus loved…” – John 13:23 (John was clearly feeling himself 😂)

So, is God partial? Does He pick and choose His favorites while the rest of us just manage?

Favoritism vs. Favor

First, let’s clear something up—God doesn’t have favorites the way humans do. But He does give favor.

And favor isn’t random; it’s a response to alignment, purpose, and relationship.

Think about it:

Abraham left everything to follow God—so God made him a father of nations.
David spent years seeking God in the wilderness—so God anointed him as king.
Mary was highly favored, not because she was lucky, but because she was chosen for a divine assignment.

Favor isn’t about God picking names out of a hat; it’s about walking in step with Him.

But Why Do Some People Seem to Get More? 🤔

Some reasons include:

1️⃣ Assignment-Specific Favor: God gives more to those carrying bigger responsibilities. Think of Joseph—he suffered for years because his favor was tied to a nation-saving destiny.

2️⃣ Closeness Brings More: James 4:8 says, “Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you.” If you sit at the front row of grace, you’ll hear more and receive more.

3️⃣ Kingdom Economy: Some people understand and apply spiritual principles better—like generosity, obedience, and faith—so they reap the rewards.

So, What About Me?

Here’s the good news: God isn’t hoarding blessings for a select few. His table is big enough for everyone.

You don’t have to be the next David or Esther to be loved by God. In fact, you already are:

📖 “For God so loved THE WORLD…”
(John 3:16)

No VIP section, no exclusives. Just open invitation.

The real question is—are you sitting at the table or just staring from afar?

Your Turn!

Have you ever felt like God was favoring others over you? What’s your experience with divine favor? Drop your thoughts in the comments! 🚀🔥

February 10, 2025

Are Christians Called to Fix Society or Just Preach the Gospel?

Alright, let’s be real. If the world is falling apart—wars, corruption, poverty, oppression—should Christians be the ones fixing it, or should we just focus on telling people about Jesus and let the world burn?

I mean, let’s imagine you’re standing in front of a man drowning in a river.

Do you:

A) Shout “Brother, believe in Jesus, and you will be saved!” or
B) Jump in, drag him out, and then talk about salvation over a warm cup of tea?

Because, let’s be honest, if he drowns before hearing the message, that’s a problem.

This is where Christians are divided.

Some say,

“Just preach! The world is doomed anyway!”

Others say,

“Fix society! How can they hear the Gospel when they’re starving?”

So, what’s the right approach?

What Did Jesus Do?

Jesus was the ultimate evangelist, right? But let’s look at His actual ministry strategy:

He preached. No argument there.
He fed people. (Matthew 14:13-21 – Feeding the 5,000)
He healed the sick. (Matthew 8:16 – He healed all who came to Him.)
He defended the oppressed. (John 8:1-11 – Saving the woman from being stoned.)
He flipped tables. (Matthew 21:12-13 – Because some “church folks” were exploiting the poor.)

Jesus did not just say, “Believe in Me and forget about your earthly problems.” He cared about people’s real struggles.

What About the Early Church?

Now, let’s talk about the original gangsters of Christianity—the apostles. Did they just preach and leave society alone? Nope.

The church in Acts literally shared everything (Acts 4:32-35). Imagine that—no Christian was poor because they actually helped each other.
They created the first welfare system—caring for widows and orphans (Acts 6:1-7).
They went against corrupt systems. Paul wasn’t afraid to stand up to rulers. Peter was jailed for challenging the status quo.
They changed the Roman Empire! Christianity spread because believers were the only ones who cared for the sick during plagues.

The early church didn’t just talk about love. They lived it.

But Isn’t Preaching the Gospel Enough?

I get it. The Gospel is the main thing. No argument there.

But the Gospel isn’t just a message—it’s a life-changing force that affects everything.

If salvation doesn’t change how we treat the poor, the oppressed, and the hurting—then what kind of Gospel are we preaching?

“Suppose a brother or a sister is without clothes and daily food. If one of you says to them, ‘Go in peace; keep warm and well fed,’ but does nothing about their physical needs, what good is it? In the same way, faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead.”
– James 2:15-17

So, no.

Just saying “I’ll pray for you” while watching someone suffer isn’t real faith.

Faith Is Action.

Think about it:

If William Wilberforce had just “preached the Gospel” and ignored slavery, millions would have remained in chains.
If Martin Luther King Jr. had just “preached the Gospel” and ignored racism, segregation would have lasted longer.
If missionaries today only preached and never built schools, hospitals, or wells, many would remain in suffering.

Jesus said we are salt and light (Matthew 5:13-16).

Salt preserves, light reveals—both require engagement with the world.

A Gospel that doesn’t touch lives is not the Gospel of Jesus Christ.

So, What’s the Answer?

Preach the Gospel. It’s the foundation of everything.
Engage Society. Fight corruption. Stand against injustice. Help the needy.
Live the Gospel. Don’t just talk about Jesus—reflect Him.

Because, listen—if the church won’t fix society, then who will?

🔥 What do you think? Should Christians actively change society, or is evangelism enough? Drop your thoughts in the comments!

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