Why Should Christians Care About the Poor?

Stewardship of Compassion and Social Responsibility

In a world where “hustle culture” is glorified and success is measured by material wealth, it’s easy to overlook the poor. Some people think:

“If they worked harder, they wouldn’t be poor.”
“God helps those who help themselves.”
“I have my own problems to worry about.”

But what does God think about all this?

Should Christians actively care for the poor, or is it just a nice thing to do when we have extra money?

Let’s get into it.

1. God’s Heart for the Poor

If you read the Bible and somehow miss God’s concern for the poor, you might need to read it again.

From Genesis to Revelation, God repeatedly calls His people to care for the weak, defend the oppressed, and provide for those in need.

Here are just a few examples:

Proverbs 19:17 – “Whoever is kind to the poor lends to the Lord, and He will reward them for what they have done.”
Isaiah 1:17 – “Learn to do right; seek justice. Defend the oppressed. Take up the cause of the fatherless; plead the case of the widow.”
James 1:27 – “Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress.”

Caring for the poor isn’t charity. It’s obedience.

It’s not about giving leftovers. It’s about stewarding resources the way God intends.

2. The Poor Aren’t Just “Them”—They’re Us

It’s easy to think of the poor as some distant group of people, but the reality is:

Poverty isn’t just a lack of money—it can be a lack of opportunity, support, or education.
Many people are one financial crisis away from struggling.
Some are born into hard circumstances they didn’t choose.

Jesus Himself was not rich on earth.

He was born in a manger.
He had no home during His ministry.
He relied on the generosity of others.

If Jesus lived humbly and cared for the poor, why should we do any less?

3. Excuses Christians Use to Avoid Helping the Poor

Many Christians say they care about the poor in theory but avoid responsibility in practice.

Here are some common excuses:

A. “The Poor Are Lazy. They Should Work Harder.”

While it’s true that hard work is valuable, it’s also true that:

✔ Some people work hard but earn very little.
✔ Some are trapped in cycles of generational poverty.
✔ Some have disabilities, illnesses, or struggles that limit opportunities.

Not everyone has the same starting point in life.

Jesus didn’t say, “Help only those who deserve it.”
He said, “Love your neighbor.”

B. “I Don’t Have Enough Money to Help.”

Caring for the poor isn’t just about money.

✔ You can give your time—volunteer at shelters, mentor, or support struggling families.
✔ You can use your skills—teach job skills, offer legal help, or train people.
✔ You can be a voice—advocate for policies that help the marginalized.

Compassion is about using whatever you have to make a difference.

C. “God Will Take Care of Them.”

Yes, God provides—but He often provides through people.

What if you are the answer to someone’s prayer?

That single mother struggling to buy food? You could be the one to help.
That unemployed father searching for a job? Your connection could be the breakthrough.
That orphan with no one to care for them? Your kindness could change their future.

God’s provision flows through His people.

4. What Does Stewardship of Compassion Look Like?

Being a good steward isn’t just about managing money—it’s about managing your heart.

✔ Give Freely: Help without expecting anything in return.
✔ Give Wisely: Support initiatives that create long-term impact.
✔ Give Relationally: Don’t just donate—build relationships with those in need.
✔ Give Consistently: Make generosity a lifestyle, not just a holiday activity.

You don’t have to change the whole world.

But you can change someone’s world.

Final Thought: We Are God’s Hands and Feet

The early church stood out because of their radical generosity. They:

Shared everything so that no one lacked (Acts 4:32-35).
Cared for widows and orphans (James 1:27).
Saw the poor as family, not strangers.

Jesus didn’t ignore the poor.
He didn’t just preach at them—He loved them.

And if we are truly His followers, we must do the same.

So, why should Christians care about the poor?

Because God does. And if His heart beats for them, ours should too.

May 23, 2025

🏃‍♂️ Jacob, Laban & You: Why Waiting Too Long Can Cost You More Than You Think

Ever thought about this?
What if Jacob had left Laban’s house the first time he thought about it? 🤔

Maybe there would’ve been no sneaky escape in the dead of night.
No stolen idols hidden under saddles.
No family drama that could power 3 seasons of a Netflix series.

But hey… Jacob waited.
And honestly, so do we.

Let’s talk.

🔄 When You Know It’s Time to Go… But You Stay Anyway

Jacob knew Laban wasn’t good for him.
He said it with his own mouth:

“Your father has cheated me by changing my wages ten times.” (Genesis 31:7)

TEN TIMES, my people. Ten.

But he stayed.
Worked.
Served.
Managed the chaos.
Pretended it was okay.
Maybe hoped it would get better.

Ever done that?

Stayed in a toxic friendship because “they were there for me once”
Stayed in a job that’s sucking the life out of you because “at least I’m getting paid”
Stayed in a church or group that’s clearly spiritually dry because “God put me here, so I must endure”

Sounds noble.

But sometimes, it’s just fear dressed in Christian clothing.

🧠 Why Do We Stay?

Let’s break it down.

Because we fear the unknown
Because we feel obligated
Because we don’t want to offend
Because leaving looks like disloyalty
Because it’s not “that” bad… yet
Because it’s not the Christian thing to do, right?

But listen.
God didn’t call you to be loyal to dysfunction.
You’re called to be faithful to Him.

🚨 The Cost of Delay

So what happened because Jacob delayed?

Family tension
Secret idol smuggling (thanks, Rachel 🙄)
Laban chasing them like it’s a Fast & Furious scene
Paranoia, guilt, anxiety…

Sound familiar?

Delaying obedience can sometimes multiply the consequences.
Comfort is not the same as peace.

🌟 But Here’s the Beautiful Part: God Still Helped Jacob

When Jacob finally moved…
God showed up.
Even though Jacob delayed, God didn’t discard him.

He protected him.
Prospered him.
Prepared him to face Esau.

So yes, maybe Jacob waited too long.

But grace waited too.

And it still does.

💭 What About You?

Is God nudging you out of your own “Laban’s house”?

That job?
That relationship?
That ministry role that’s slowly killing your fire? ||ghen ghen…
That comfort zone that’s become a cage?

Stop waiting for things to fall apart before you move.
Delayed obedience is still disobedience.

Jacob eventually left.
And his story didn’t end in regret—it ended in restoration. But what if he left earlier.

🔚 Final Thought

Don’t just stay because it’s familiar.
Don’t let “endurance” become an excuse for fear.

When God says move, don’t manage dysfunction—obey.

Because you may never know what restoration, healing, or new season is waiting outside Laban’s gate.

Now go pack your bags 🧳

And leave well.

Before you waste another 6years

March 23, 2025March 18, 2025

SPIRITUAL BULLIES: WHEN HOLINESS BECOMES A WEAPON

Let’s be real—some Christians can be bullies. 😳 Yeah, I said it. Not the type that steals your lunch money, but the kind that makes you feel like a spiritual cockroach before God. They swing their Bibles like battle axes, quoting verses faster than a WhatsApp forward, and before you know it—you’re questioning if you’re even saved.

But wait—how do we address this without falling into extremes? We can’t just dismiss correction (because real accountability is biblical), but we also can’t allow a culture where people are spiritually manipulated, guilt-tripped, and shamed into submission. So, let’s break it down:

1. WHO ARE SPIRITUAL BULLIES?

You know them. They could be the overly zealous church member who polices everyone’s behavior. The preacher who shouts, “You’re going to hell!” more than “God loves you.” Or the person who makes their personal convictions law for everyone else.

They operate in different forms:

🔹 The Legalist: “If you don’t wear a suit to church, you’re dishonoring God.”
🔹 The Guilt-Tripper: “So you’re telling me you didn’t fast for 40 days? Wow. Just wow.”
🔹 The Super-Spiritualist: “I had a dream that you need to sow a seed or your destiny is in danger.”
🔹 The Scripture Sniper: Always quoting verses out of context to attack, not to edify.

2. BIBLICAL EXAMPLES OF SPIRITUAL BULLYING

This isn’t a modern-day problem. Even Jesus had to deal with spiritual bullies—THE PHARISEES. These guys were the original religious gangsters. They made following God look like an extreme sport.

“They tie up heavy, burdensome loads and lay them on people’s shoulders, but they themselves are not willing to lift a finger to move them.”
📖 Matthew 23:4

Jesus wasn’t impressed. He called them hypocrites, blind guides, and whitewashed tombs (ouch!). Why? Because they made religion about performance, not relationship.

Another example? Job’s friends. Instead of comforting him, they took turns telling him why he must have sinned. Classic spiritual bullying—making assumptions about someone’s struggles and pushing the blame on them.

3. WHY DO PEOPLE BECOME SPIRITUAL BULLIES?

Nobody wakes up and says, “I want to be a religious tyrant today.” But here’s why it happens:

🔹 Insecurity: Some people use spirituality as a mask to cover their own struggles. If they can make you feel less holy, they feel more holy.
🔹 Control: Others love power. If they can make you dependent on them for “divine direction,” they get to play god in your life.
🔹 Miseducation: Some genuinely think they’re doing God’s work by being harsh. They confuse boldness with being rude.
🔹 Pride: “I have reached a level in Christ you will never understand.” Some people equate knowledge with superiority.

4. WHEN CORRECTION BECOMES MANIPULATION

Here’s the tricky part—Christians ARE called to correct each other (Galatians 6:1). But there’s a difference between correction and condemnation.

🔹 Correction says,

“Hey, I noticed something off. Let’s talk about it and grow.”

🔹 Condemnation says,

“You’re a disappointment to God. I don’t even know if you’re saved.”

One is love; the other is control.

5. ARE YOU BEING SPIRITUALLY BULLIED?

Ask yourself:

✅ Do they make you feel like your relationship with God isn’t good enough?
✅ Are they always focusing on your failures but never your growth?
✅ Do they use fear to keep you in check?
✅ Do they expect unquestioning obedience to their authority?
✅ Do they act like they have “exclusive” revelations you can’t get on your own?

If so, you might be dealing with a spiritual bully.

6. HOW TO DEAL WITH SPIRITUAL BULLIES (WITHOUT BECOMING ONE YOURSELF)

So what do you do? Because let’s be honest, our flesh wants to clap back. But God’s way is different.

✅ Stand Firm in Your Identity – Your relationship with God isn’t based on someone else’s approval. If they say, “You’re not spiritual enough,” remember: God calls you His child, and that’s enough (John 1:12).
✅ Know the Word for Yourself – So no one can use it against you. Jesus countered the devil’s misinterpretations with the right context (Matthew 4:1-11).
✅ Set Boundaries – It’s okay to say, “I appreciate your concern, but I’ll take this to God myself.”
✅ Correct in Love, Not Pride – If you see someone else being spiritually bullied, don’t fight pride with pride. Help them without becoming the same thing you’re against.

7. FINAL THOUGHTS: HOW TO SPOT A TRUE SPIRITUAL LEADER

Not everyone who corrects you is a spiritual bully. Some people truly want to help you grow. So how do you tell the difference?

A true spiritual leader:
✅ Leads with humility, not arrogance (Philippians 2:3-4).
✅ Encourages growth, not guilt (2 Corinthians 7:10).
✅ Points to Jesus, not themselves (John 3:30).
✅ Gives room for grace, not just rules (Romans 6:14).

Spiritual bullies push you down. True shepherds lift you up.

🚀 CLOSING THOUGHT:

Christianity is not about oppression; it’s about transformation. God didn’t save us so we could live in fear of “not measuring up.” He saved us so we could grow in Him—not under the weight of religious pressure, but in the freedom of His love.

So if you’ve been bullied by “super-spiritual” people, let this be your reminder: Jesus didn’t come to start a club for the perfect. He came for the broken, the weak, the outcast—and He calls them His own. 💙🔥

What do you think? Have you ever dealt with spiritual bullies? How did you handle it? Let’s talk! 👇💬

March 11, 2025

Does God Have Favees? Or Are Some People Just… Special? 😏

Let’s be real. Sometimes, it feels like God has His guys.

You pray, fast, and even sow seed, but somehow, Sister Chinyere testifies again that she got a miracle alert—without praying! 😳

You hustle, stay faithful, and trust God, but Brother Samuel (who just repented last week) lands a dream job effortlessly.

Meanwhile, you’re like: “God, shey You dey whine me ni?” 😭

So… does God play favorites?

God’s VIP List?

If we’re being honest, some Bible verses seem to suggest that God does, in fact, have special people:

📖 “Jacob I loved, but Esau I hated.” – Romans 9:13
📖 “David is a man after My own heart.” – Acts 13:22
📖 “The disciple whom Jesus loved…” – John 13:23 (John was clearly feeling himself 😂)

So, is God partial? Does He pick and choose His favorites while the rest of us just manage?

Favoritism vs. Favor

First, let’s clear something up—God doesn’t have favorites the way humans do. But He does give favor.

And favor isn’t random; it’s a response to alignment, purpose, and relationship.

Think about it:

Abraham left everything to follow God—so God made him a father of nations.
David spent years seeking God in the wilderness—so God anointed him as king.
Mary was highly favored, not because she was lucky, but because she was chosen for a divine assignment.

Favor isn’t about God picking names out of a hat; it’s about walking in step with Him.

But Why Do Some People Seem to Get More? 🤔

Some reasons include:

1️⃣ Assignment-Specific Favor: God gives more to those carrying bigger responsibilities. Think of Joseph—he suffered for years because his favor was tied to a nation-saving destiny.

2️⃣ Closeness Brings More: James 4:8 says, “Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you.” If you sit at the front row of grace, you’ll hear more and receive more.

3️⃣ Kingdom Economy: Some people understand and apply spiritual principles better—like generosity, obedience, and faith—so they reap the rewards.

So, What About Me?

Here’s the good news: God isn’t hoarding blessings for a select few. His table is big enough for everyone.

You don’t have to be the next David or Esther to be loved by God. In fact, you already are:

📖 “For God so loved THE WORLD…”
(John 3:16)

No VIP section, no exclusives. Just open invitation.

The real question is—are you sitting at the table or just staring from afar?

Your Turn!

Have you ever felt like God was favoring others over you? What’s your experience with divine favor? Drop your thoughts in the comments! 🚀🔥

February 17, 2025February 17, 2025

Is Western Christianity Biblical or Just Cultural?

We’re about to dive headfirst into this topic, breaking it down layer by layer like peeling an onion (hopefully without tears). We’ll explore the history, the subtle shifts, the dangerous distortions, and how to return to a faith that’s purely biblical, not just cultural.

Brace yourself. This might get uncomfortable—but truth has a way of doing that.

Is Western Christianity Biblical or Just Cultural?

Have We Rewritten the Faith to Suit Our Preferences?

I. Where Did This All Begin?

To understand whether Western Christianity is more biblical or cultural, we have to take a quick history lesson.

1. The Early Church – Pure, Persecuted, and Uncompromising

The first Christians were countercultural rebels. They didn’t blend in—they stood out. Christianity wasn’t just a Sunday gathering; it was a life-consuming movement that:

✔ Met in homes (Acts 2:46)
✔ Sold possessions to help the poor (Acts 4:32-35)
✔ Faced severe persecution but never compromised (Acts 5:40-42)

No one joined Christianity for status, prosperity, or comfort—it was a call to die to self and live for Christ.

Then something changed.

2. The Roman Influence – When Faith Got Political

In 313 AD, Emperor Constantine legalized Christianity. Suddenly, the persecuted faith became the state religion. Good news, right? Not entirely.

What happens when faith is mixed with political power? Christianity shifted from a movement of radical discipleship to a structured institution:

✔ Christianity became mainstream (no more underground churches).
✔ Church leadership became hierarchical (bishops, councils, and eventually popes).
✔ Government and faith intertwined, creating state-controlled religion.

While this helped spread Christianity, it also injected culture into faith, making it harder to separate what was biblical from what was political or traditional.

3. The Reformation – A Fight for the Bible Over Tradition

Fast forward to 1517, Martin Luther sparks the Protestant Reformation. He realizes the church had drifted from Scripture and was now promoting man-made traditions:

🚫 Selling indulgences (paying money for forgiveness of sins? Seriously?)
🚫 Elevating church leaders as ultimate authorities (instead of Scripture)
🚫 Salvation by works + faith (instead of grace alone)

Luther’s biggest fight? Bringing the Bible back to the people. His famous stance:

“Unless I am convinced by Scripture and plain reason, I cannot recant. Here I stand, I can do no other.”

The Reformation was a victory for biblical Christianity, but here’s where it gets tricky—every revival movement carries cultural baggage.

Which brings us to…

II. How Western Culture Has Shaped Christianity

Now that we’ve seen where we started, let’s examine where we are today.

The Western world (Europe & America) has had a massive influence on modern Christianity, both good and bad.

Let’s break down four key areas where culture has shaped faith:

1. Individualism vs. Biblical Community

👉 “Jesus is my personal Savior.”

Nothing wrong with that, right? Actually, this is both biblical and cultural.

✔ The Bible teaches that salvation is personal (Romans 10:9).
❌ But Western culture takes this further—faith becomes just “me and Jesus”, ignoring the community aspect of Christianity.

Contrast this with biblical Christianity:

✔ The early church was deeply communal. They shared everything (Acts 4:32).
✔ They lived life together daily. No such thing as “lone-wolf Christianity” (Hebrews 10:25).

The Western cultural shift: Faith became private and individualistic—which is why many Christians today struggle with accountability, church commitment, and true fellowship.

2. The Comfort-Driven Gospel – Faith Without the Cross

Western culture idolizes comfort. And sadly, so does much of Western Christianity.

👉 Sermons get shorter because people have short attention spans.
👉 Worship services feel like concerts instead of God encounters.
👉 Messages avoid conviction so that no one feels uncomfortable.

But let’s be real: Christianity was never meant to be comfortable.

Jesus said:

“Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves, take up their cross daily, and follow me.”
(Luke 9:23)

❌ Modern Christianity says: “God just wants you to be happy.”
✅ Biblical Christianity says: “God calls you to be holy.” (1 Peter 1:16)

If our faith costs us nothing, it may not be true Christianity—just a cultural imitation.

3. The Prosperity Gospel – Jesus as a Money Machine

If you’ve ever heard: “God wants you to be rich and successful!”—congratulations, you’ve encountered Westernized Christianity’s greatest export: the prosperity gospel.

🚫 “Sow a seed of $1000 and God will bless you!”
🚫 “If you have faith, you’ll never struggle financially!”
🚫 “God wants every Christian to drive a Benz!”

But here’s what Jesus actually said:

“Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth… but store up treasures in heaven.”
(Matthew 6:19-20)

Now, does God bless His people? Absolutely.
Does He promise material wealth to every believer? Nope.

Western Christianity often equates God’s favor with financial success—but Scripture teaches that blessings come in many forms (spiritual growth, character, joy in suffering).

4. Secular Influence – When Culture Redefines Truth

Western society loves moral flexibility. The world says:

❌ “Truth is subjective.”
❌ “Follow your heart.”
❌ “Don’t judge—love means accepting everything.”

And sadly, many churches have absorbed this thinking.

But the Bible is clear:

✔ Truth is absolute. “Your WORD is truth.” (John 17:17)
✔ Our hearts are deceptive. “The heart is deceitful above all things.” (Jeremiah 17:9)
✔ Love means truth-telling. “Speak the truth in love.” (Ephesians 4:15)

Western Christianity sometimes compromises truth in order to be “inclusive” and not offend people. But Jesus didn’t come to fit into culture—He came to change it.

III. How Do We Return to Biblical Christianity?

So, what now? How do we strip away cultural distortions and get back to biblical faith?

1. Test Everything Against Scripture

Culture changes. The Bible doesn’t (Isaiah 40:8).

2. Prioritize Obedience Over Comfort

Faith isn’t about convenience—it’s about commitment (Luke 9:62).

3. Seek a Kingdom Perspective

Christianity isn’t American, African, or Asian—it’s a global, eternal kingdom (Revelation 7:9).

4. Stay Connected to Authentic Christian Community

Isolation weakens faith—community strengthens it (Acts 2:42).

🔥 Your Turn!

👉 Do you think Western Christianity has drifted from biblical faith?
👉 What cultural influences do you see in your own faith?
👉 How can we return to true, biblical Christianity?

Let’s talk! Drop your thoughts in the comments. 🚀🔥

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