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Are You a Leader or Just in Charge?

Stewardship of Authority and Influence

Let’s be honest. Not everyone in a leadership position is actually a leader.

Some people are just… in charge.

  • The boss who loves the title but not the responsibility.
  • The church leader who demands respect but refuses to serve.
  • The government official who enjoys the benefits but ignores the people.

We’ve all seen it.
Maybe, at times, we’ve even been it.

But true leadership is not about control—it’s about stewardship.

God doesn’t just give influence for personal gain. He gives it for impact.

So, are you a leader, or are you just in charge?

Let’s break it down.

1. Leadership Is a Calling, Not a Status

Many people see leadership as a promotion, a reward, or a sign of importance.

But in the Bible, leadership is a calling—and it comes with weighty responsibility.

Biblical Examples of Leadership as Stewardship

✔ Moses didn’t apply for the job—he was called to lead Israel, despite his weaknesses (Exodus 3:11-12).
✔ David was a shepherd before he was a king. God trained him to lead by teaching him to care for sheep (1 Samuel 16:11-13).
✔ Jesus—the ultimate leader—served instead of demanding service (Matthew 20:28).

Leadership is never about status—it’s always about service.

2. Being in Charge vs. Being a Leader

Here’s the difference between real leaders and those who are just in charge:

Those Who Are Just in ChargeTrue Leaders
Love titles and positionsLove people and purpose
Demand respect and obedienceEarn trust through service
Avoid accountabilityAccept responsibility
Make themselves comfortableMake others better
Use authority to controlUse authority to empower

Being in charge is about power.
Being a leader is about responsibility.

3. The Danger of Misusing Influence

Many people step into leadership but fail the test of stewardship.

Power exposes character.

  • Pharaoh used his power to oppress Israel.
  • Saul used his position to hunt David out of jealousy.
  • The Pharisees used religion to burden people instead of helping them.

Modern-Day Examples

  • The church leader who uses authority to silence questions instead of guiding people.
  • The boss who micro-manages everything instead of trusting the team.
  • The politician who forgets the people once elected.

God doesn’t just judge what we do with leadership—He judges how we do it.

4. Stewarding Authority the Right Way

If God has given you influence, you have a divine responsibility to:

✔ Lead with humility – Pride destroys leadership. Humility sustains it (Proverbs 11:2).
✔ Seek wisdom – Leadership without wisdom is dangerous (Proverbs 4:7).
✔ Be accountable – Every leader needs someone who can correct them (Proverbs 27:17).
✔ Empower others – The best leaders raise more leaders.
✔ Serve first – “Whoever wants to be great must be a servant.” (Matthew 20:26)

Great leaders don’t cling to power—they release it for impact.

5. Are You Leading Well? (Self-Check)

Ask yourself:

  • Do I care more about the title than the people?
  • Do I use my authority to control or to empower?
  • Am I accountable to anyone?
  • If I lost my position today, would I still serve?
  • Would God say I’m stewarding leadership well?

If leadership is about service, impact, and responsibility—then many people aren’t leading.
They’re just… in charge.

Which one are you?

Final Thought

Leadership is a gift from God—but it’s also a test.

✔ How you lead determines whether God can trust you with more.
✔ The best leaders aren’t obsessed with power—they’re obsessed with purpose.
✔ If you don’t lead well, God can take the influence away (Luke 16:10).

So, are you a leader, or just in charge?

The way you serve, empower, and steward your influence will answer that question.

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Why Should Christians Care About the Poor?

Stewardship of Compassion and Social Responsibility

In a world where “hustle culture” is glorified and success is measured by material wealth, it’s easy to overlook the poor. Some people think:

  • “If they worked harder, they wouldn’t be poor.”
  • “God helps those who help themselves.”
  • “I have my own problems to worry about.”

But what does God think about all this?

Should Christians actively care for the poor, or is it just a nice thing to do when we have extra money?

Let’s get into it.

1. God’s Heart for the Poor

If you read the Bible and somehow miss God’s concern for the poor, you might need to read it again.

From Genesis to Revelation, God repeatedly calls His people to care for the weak, defend the oppressed, and provide for those in need.

Here are just a few examples:

  • Proverbs 19:17 – “Whoever is kind to the poor lends to the Lord, and He will reward them for what they have done.”
  • Isaiah 1:17 – “Learn to do right; seek justice. Defend the oppressed. Take up the cause of the fatherless; plead the case of the widow.”
  • James 1:27 – “Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress.”

Caring for the poor isn’t charity. It’s obedience.

It’s not about giving leftovers. It’s about stewarding resources the way God intends.

2. The Poor Aren’t Just “Them”—They’re Us

It’s easy to think of the poor as some distant group of people, but the reality is:

  • Poverty isn’t just a lack of money—it can be a lack of opportunity, support, or education.
  • Many people are one financial crisis away from struggling.
  • Some are born into hard circumstances they didn’t choose.

Jesus Himself was not rich on earth.

  • He was born in a manger.
  • He had no home during His ministry.
  • He relied on the generosity of others.

If Jesus lived humbly and cared for the poor, why should we do any less?

3. Excuses Christians Use to Avoid Helping the Poor

Many Christians say they care about the poor in theory but avoid responsibility in practice.

Here are some common excuses:

A. “The Poor Are Lazy. They Should Work Harder.”

While it’s true that hard work is valuable, it’s also true that:

✔ Some people work hard but earn very little.
✔ Some are trapped in cycles of generational poverty.
✔ Some have disabilities, illnesses, or struggles that limit opportunities.

Not everyone has the same starting point in life.

Jesus didn’t say, “Help only those who deserve it.”
He said, “Love your neighbor.”

B. “I Don’t Have Enough Money to Help.”

Caring for the poor isn’t just about money.

✔ You can give your time—volunteer at shelters, mentor, or support struggling families.
✔ You can use your skills—teach job skills, offer legal help, or train people.
✔ You can be a voice—advocate for policies that help the marginalized.

Compassion is about using whatever you have to make a difference.

C. “God Will Take Care of Them.”

Yes, God provides—but He often provides through people.

What if you are the answer to someone’s prayer?

  • That single mother struggling to buy food? You could be the one to help.
  • That unemployed father searching for a job? Your connection could be the breakthrough.
  • That orphan with no one to care for them? Your kindness could change their future.

God’s provision flows through His people.

4. What Does Stewardship of Compassion Look Like?

Being a good steward isn’t just about managing money—it’s about managing your heart.

✔ Give Freely: Help without expecting anything in return.
✔ Give Wisely: Support initiatives that create long-term impact.
✔ Give Relationally: Don’t just donate—build relationships with those in need.
✔ Give Consistently: Make generosity a lifestyle, not just a holiday activity.

You don’t have to change the whole world.

But you can change someone’s world.

Final Thought: We Are God’s Hands and Feet

The early church stood out because of their radical generosity. They:

  • Shared everything so that no one lacked (Acts 4:32-35).
  • Cared for widows and orphans (James 1:27).
  • Saw the poor as family, not strangers.

Jesus didn’t ignore the poor.
He didn’t just preach at them—He loved them.

And if we are truly His followers, we must do the same.

So, why should Christians care about the poor?

Because God does. And if His heart beats for them, ours should too.

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🏃‍♂️ Jacob, Laban & You: Why Waiting Too Long Can Cost You More Than You Think

Ever thought about this?
What if Jacob had left Laban’s house the first time he thought about it? 🤔

Maybe there would’ve been no sneaky escape in the dead of night.
No stolen idols hidden under saddles.
No family drama that could power 3 seasons of a Netflix series.

But hey… Jacob waited.
And honestly, so do we.

Let’s talk.

🔄 When You Know It’s Time to Go… But You Stay Anyway

Jacob knew Laban wasn’t good for him.
He said it with his own mouth:

“Your father has cheated me by changing my wages ten times.” (Genesis 31:7)

TEN TIMES, my people. Ten.

But he stayed.
Worked.
Served.
Managed the chaos.
Pretended it was okay.
Maybe hoped it would get better.

Ever done that?

  • Stayed in a toxic friendship because “they were there for me once”
  • Stayed in a job that’s sucking the life out of you because “at least I’m getting paid”
  • Stayed in a church or group that’s clearly spiritually dry because “God put me here, so I must endure”

Sounds noble.

But sometimes, it’s just fear dressed in Christian clothing.

🧠 Why Do We Stay?

Let’s break it down.

  • Because we fear the unknown
  • Because we feel obligated
  • Because we don’t want to offend
  • Because leaving looks like disloyalty
  • Because it’s not “that” bad… yet
  • Because it’s not the Christian thing to do, right?

But listen.
God didn’t call you to be loyal to dysfunction.
You’re called to be faithful to Him.

🚨 The Cost of Delay

So what happened because Jacob delayed?

  • Family tension
  • Secret idol smuggling (thanks, Rachel 🙄)
  • Laban chasing them like it’s a Fast & Furious scene
  • Paranoia, guilt, anxiety…

Sound familiar?

Delaying obedience can sometimes multiply the consequences.
Comfort is not the same as peace.

🌟 But Here’s the Beautiful Part: God Still Helped Jacob

When Jacob finally moved…
God showed up.
Even though Jacob delayed, God didn’t discard him.

He protected him.
Prospered him.
Prepared him to face Esau.

So yes, maybe Jacob waited too long.

But grace waited too.

And it still does.

💭 What About You?

Is God nudging you out of your own “Laban’s house”?

  • That job?
  • That relationship?
  • That ministry role that’s slowly killing your fire? ||ghen ghen…
  • That comfort zone that’s become a cage?

Stop waiting for things to fall apart before you move.
Delayed obedience is still disobedience.

Jacob eventually left.
And his story didn’t end in regret—it ended in restoration. But what if he left earlier.

🔚 Final Thought

Don’t just stay because it’s familiar.
Don’t let “endurance” become an excuse for fear.

When God says move, don’t manage dysfunction—obey.

Because you may never know what restoration, healing, or new season is waiting outside Laban’s gate.

Now go pack your bags 🧳

And leave well.

Before you waste another 6years

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God, Justice, and Stewardship: What’s Our Role in Society?

Stewarding Influence for Social Impact

We love to talk about God’s justice—until it requires something from us.

We say, “God will handle it.”
We quote, “Vengeance is mine, says the Lord.”
We pray, “Father, intervene.”

But while we’re waiting for divine intervention, God is often waiting for human participation.

The question is: What is our role in making the world a better place?

  • Are we just supposed to pray?
  • Do we fight for justice?
  • How do we balance activism with faith?
  • What does true stewardship of influence look like?

Let’s dive into it.

Stewardship is More Than Money—It’s Influence

When we hear stewardship, we think of tithing, generosity, or financial management. But biblical stewardship is far deeper.

Stewardship means managing whatever God has placed in your hands—your resources, your voice, your power, and your influence.

  • If you have money, steward it well.
  • If you have a platform, use it for truth.
  • If you have leadership, fight for righteousness.
  • If you have wisdom, educate those who don’t.

Justice is not just a government responsibility. It’s a Christian responsibility.

Micah makes it clear:

“He has shown you, O man, what is good. And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly, to love mercy, and to walk humbly with your God.”

Micah 6:8

Justice is not an option. It’s a command.

What Justice Looks Like in Real Life

1. The Justice of Speaking Up

Sometimes, injustice doesn’t thrive because of evil people but because of silent people.

  • When people are oppressed, do you speak up?
  • When the poor are ignored, do you care?
  • When leaders misuse power, do you confront it?

Proverbs 31:8-9 says:
“Speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves, for the rights of all who are destitute. Speak up and judge fairly; defend the rights of the poor and needy.”

God’s people don’t sit in silence. We stand for truth.

2. The Justice of Integrity

Many of us want to see society change, but we cut corners in our own lives.

  • You can’t condemn corruption while giving bribes.
  • You can’t demand honesty while manipulating systems.
  • You can’t fight injustice while cheating others.

Before we demand righteousness out there, we must start in here.

Justice begins with integrity.

3. The Justice of Loving Beyond Comfort

It’s easy to support justice for our tribe.
It’s easy to fight for the rights of people we like.
It’s easy to defend causes that benefit us.

But Jesus calls us to love beyond our bias.

  • He touched the untouchables.
  • He sat with sinners.
  • He defended the weak.
  • He welcomed the rejected.

True Christian justice doesn’t pick sides based on tribe, politics, or preference.

It stands for what is right—no matter who it offends.

So, What’s Our Role?

Some people ask, “But isn’t God the ultimate judge? Why do we need to act?”

Yes, God is the final judge. But that doesn’t mean we are called to passivity.

We are His hands and feet on earth. If we don’t steward justice, who will?

We need…
✔ Righteous politicians who serve, not exploit.
✔ Faithful business leaders who prioritize people over profit.
✔ Honest citizens who refuse corruption.
✔ Compassionate believers who see pain and act.

Justice does not mean rebellion. It means righteous action.
Justice is not about revenge. It’s about restoration.
Justice is not just activism. It’s kingdom living.

Final Thought: Steward Your Influence Well

God has given you a voice, a position, and a sphere of influence.

The question is: How are you using it?

  • Are you standing for truth?
  • Are you speaking up for the weak?
  • Are you practicing justice in your own life?

Because injustice thrives where good people do nothing.

And as Christians, doing nothing is not an option.

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Every Second Counts: How Are You Spending the Time God Gave You?

Let’s be honest—if time were money, many of us would be in serious debt.

We scroll endlessly on our phones, binge-watch series like it’s a divine assignment, and engage in arguments that add no value to our lives. Yet, when it’s time to pray, read the Bible, or actually do something meaningful, we suddenly have “no time.”

But here’s the reality: Time is a gift from God, and how we use it is a reflection of our priorities.

The Reality Check We Avoid

Imagine standing before God one day, and He asks,
“What did you do with the time I gave you?”

What’s your answer?

  • “I watched 4,562 TikTok videos.”
  • “I mastered all the football transfer gossip.”
  • “I had long debates on Twitter about who is the GOAT—Messi or Ronaldo.”

But did we invest in things that matter? Did we build character, serve others, love people better, or deepen our relationship with God?

Ephesians 5:16 says, “Make the most of every opportunity in these evil days.”

Are we doing that?

Biblical Time Management vs. Time Wasting

Jesus lived 33 years and transformed the world. Paul had limited time and still spread the gospel across continents. But in today’s world?

  • We waste hours overthinking instead of acting.
  • We delay obedience, saying, “I’ll do it later,” until later never comes.
  • We spend time on meaningless things and call it “rest.”

Yes, rest is important. But there’s a difference between rest and waste.

Nigerian Reality: Time and Procrastination Wahala

In Nigeria, we have a phrase: “I go do am later.”

That later never comes. We carry over important things like we’re students avoiding deadlines.

  • God is calling you to start that business? “I go reason am.”
  • He’s telling you to evangelize? “Next time.”
  • You have an exam? “I still get time.”

Before you know it, 10 years have passed, and nothing has changed.

How to Start Managing Time Biblically

  1. Start Your Day With Purpose – Don’t just wake up and see how the day goes. Pray, set priorities, and attack the day with intentionality. (Psalm 90:12 – “Teach us to number our days.”)
  2. Cut the Excuses – If something is important, you’ll make time for it. If it’s not, you’ll make excuses. (Ecclesiastes 11:4 – “Whoever watches the wind will not plant.”)
  3. Reduce Time Wasters – Social media, endless gossip, pointless debates—cut them down!
  4. Use Small Moments Wisely – Read your Bible while in transit. Pray while cooking. Listen to sermons during traffic. Those “idle” moments can become God moments.
  5. Act Now, Not Later – The biggest lie we tell ourselves is “There’s still time.” Jesus said, “We must do the works of Him who sent me while it is day; night is coming when no one can work.” (John 9:4)

Final Thoughts: The Clock is Ticking

One day, our time on earth will be up. We won’t get a rewind or extra credit for time wasted.

So… What are you doing with the time God gave you?

Because every second counts.